Family,as the word suggests:"Father And Mother I Love You".Does this also means parents should love their kids at the same time? Some people say parents give us life,we should take care of them anyway.U agree with that?Let’s see an example.Once upon a time,there’s an irritable father and a selfish mother,they complain and upset about each other all their life,the father wandered far afield in foreign lands because his family didnt accept his wife,his wife wasn’t appreciated him at all but the only thing she did is chasing everybody away from him.The father didnt take care of the kids because of his work,the mother using kids as an excuse to asking money.Kids starving;dont have clothes to wear;living in the poor neighborhood ;earning their own money to go to school;never get any supports from the parents;even never hear parents say "i love you"…It is ok,they call it "American way" to make kids self-dependence.But now ,the parents’re getting old,they actually ask the kids take care of them.They call it: "Chinese way". Oh god,you change from American to Chinese so quik!Does it sound like a big joke? Yes,We respect and suppose taking care of the parents who have a strong sense of duty,but not the ones who lacking in responsibility and left their kids on the street!
I always believe a phrase which Confucius said:If u requited ingratitude with kindness,how u requited kindness? It’s true,if you treat enemies good,how you treat your freinds?If you’re nice to the people hurt u or ignore u,how about the people who really loves u or care about u? Trust me,u will lose your true love or freinds because of your unfair treatment.
So people,be fair,not only for the deals,but also for the people arround u.To be cognizant who is the person deserves your love and help.
The most important things for a marrige
written by YiyiLiu
This is the basic thing between a couple,a marrige without love is just in name only .Looking back all the sad marriges which based on money or politics in history, they all end with pain,bar none.But love is not only kisses,flowers or mushy words. what we talk about here is–What is love? Does love means to change the person or just accept the way he or she is ?For example,we all know a movie called"My Fair Lady"-A low class girl speak coarse language was changed by a professor from high society.At last the professor fall in love with her not because of her princess-like accent,but her real unique qualities.And I bet you will never forget "the riff-raff Jack" from the movie "Titanic",but you have to admit the way he talk with people from high social standing was so charming and confidence,even he has no penny in his pocket.This true personality attract Rose,and she accept the way he originally is.So people,except romantic,love is also understanding and accepting.If you wanna change the person into ur way,well then ,you dont really love them.The one you love,is yourself.
Words from Tina’s space